The Most Common Reception Song Requests

Nothing sets the tone for a wedding quite like the music you choose for your dance floor. It’s more than just a playlist—it’s the heartbeat of your celebration, the catalyst for laughter, connection, and those iconic moments that become lifelong memories. But as 2026 approaches and couples across Charlotte, Raleigh, and Asheville look for ways to make their weddings stand out, one question keeps coming up: What are the most requested wedding dance songs right now, and how do you build a playlist that’s both fresh and timeless?

Let’s get right to the answer: the most requested wedding dance songs for 2025 are a blend of new anthems, nostalgic throwbacks, and cross-generational crowd-pleasers. According to DJ Intelligence’s latest data, as shared by Stylus Weddings, these tracks aren’t just topping the charts—they’re dominating dance floors at real weddings across North Carolina and beyond[4]. Why? Because they bring people together, spark genuine joy, and keep the party energy high from the first dance to the final song.

But here’s the real secret: it’s not just about playing the hits—it’s about curating a musical journey that reflects your story, your crowd, and your unique style. That’s where a personalized, professional DJ makes all the difference. As a solopreneur DJ in Charlotte, I’ve seen firsthand how the right song at the right moment can turn a good party into an unforgettable one. And I know how to blend trending tracks, classic favorites, and your personal requests into a seamless, high-energy soundtrack that keeps your dance floor packed all night.

So, what’s hot for 2026? The DJ Intelligence Top 20 for last year is a must-watch list, including:

- “I Wanna Dance with Somebody” – Whitney Houston

- “Shut Up and Dance” – WALK THE MOON

- “Uptown Funk” – Mark Ronson feat. Bruno Mars

- “Can’t Stop the Feeling!” – Justin Timberlake

- “Yeah!” – Usher feat. Lil Jon & Ludacris

- “Dynamite” – BTS

- “Levitating” – Dua Lipa

- “September” – Earth, Wind & Fire

- “About Damn Time” – Lizzo

- “Dancing Queen” – ABBA

- “Mr. Brightside” – The Killers

- “Cupid” – FIFTY FIFTY

- “Shivers” – Ed Sheeran

- “Party in the U.S.A.” – Miley Cyrus

- “Peaches” – Justin Bieber

- “24K Magic” – Bruno Mars

- “Stayin’ Alive” – Bee Gees

- “Sweet Caroline” – Neil Diamond

- “Don’t Stop Believin’” – Journey

- “Blinding Lights” – The Weeknd

These songs are topping request lists because they offer something for everyone—whether you’re 28 or 68, love pop or funk, want to relive a high school memory or create a new one with your partner. And the best part? The list is always evolving. Couples are mixing in TikTok hits, genre mashups, and even acoustic versions of their favorite tracks to make their celebration feel personal and on-trend. Feel free to leave anyone of these tracks on your "do-not-play" or "must play" lists.

But don’t just take my word for it. Industry experts agree that a dynamic, crowd-inclusive playlist is the key to a packed dance floor. As Stylus Weddings notes, “These top 20 requested songs of 2025 offer something for everyone, ensuring your wedding playlist is as dynamic and fun as your celebration.”[4] The real magic happens when you work with your DJ to weave these hits into a setlist that also includes your “must plays,” “do not plays,” and those special songs that mean the most to you.

Wondering how to make your playlist truly yours? Here’s what I recommend to every couple:

- Start with the classics that always get people moving, but don’t be afraid to add your own twist—maybe it’s a remix, a live musician, or a surprise throwback that only your friends will recognize.

- Think about your crowd. Are they more into 2000s pop, hip-hop, or Motown? The best dance floors blend genres and eras so everyone gets a moment to shine.

- Don’t overlook the power of a great slow song or two. These moments give everyone a chance to connect, recharge, and get ready for the next big hit.

- Trust your DJ to read the room. The top DJs in Charlotte aren’t just playing a list—they’re watching the crowd, adjusting the energy, and making sure every transition feels seamless.

And if you’re planning a winter wedding or a holiday party, don’t be afraid to sprinkle in a few festive tracks—just not too many back-to-back. As Digital DJ Tips advises, “Play the Christmas hits, but not too often… Think of the holiday tunes as seasoning, an extra flavor to add to your DJ sets.”[3] The goal is to keep the party vibe alive while giving a nod to the season.

Still have questions? Here’s what couples ask me most:

How do I make sure my playlist doesn’t feel overplayed?

Mix trending hits with personal favorites, and let your DJ suggest fresh remixes or lesser-known gems that fit your vibe.

Can I include cultural or family traditions in the dance set?

Absolutely. The best celebrations are inclusive and reflect your background, whether that means a Hora, a Bollywood hit, or a classic Motown medley.

What if my crowd is really mixed in age and taste?

That’s where a professional DJ shines—by blending genres, reading the room, and making sure everyone feels welcome on the dance floor.

How do I handle requests from guests?

I always encourage couples to set clear “must play” and “do not play” lists. I’m happy to take requests that fit your vision and keep the energy high.

At the end of the day, your wedding music should feel like a celebration of you—your story, your friends, your family, and your future together. The most requested songs of 2025 are a great starting point, but the real magic happens when you work with a DJ who listens, personalizes, and brings every moment to life.

Ready to build the perfect playlist for your Charlotte wedding or event? Let’s connect and create a soundtrack that keeps your dance floor packed, your guests smiling, and your celebration unforgettable.

Much Love,

Derrin at Vinylly Wed