Collaborative Fun: How Vinylly Wed Helps Couples Curate Their Perfect Playlist
- Derrin Burke
- Apr 21
- 4 min read

Wedding planning can feel like juggling a million decisions at once, but one aspect that should be pure joy is choosing the music. After all, the soundtrack to your wedding day sets the tone for every unforgettable moment—from your walk down the aisle to the last song that keeps guests dancing into the night. At Vinylly Wed, I believe that crafting your playlist should be more than a task; it should be a shared, creative process filled with collaboration and fun.
As a solopreneur DJ based in Charlotte, NC, I’ve made it my mission to work closely with couples to design personalized playlists that reflect their unique love stories. Let’s dive into how this collaborative approach works and why it’s key to creating a truly memorable wedding experience.
It Starts With You
Every couple has their own vibe, their own story, and their own musical preferences. That’s why our journey together begins with a conversation—not just about songs but about who you are as individuals and as partners. Are you fans of indie rock? Do you have a soft spot for Motown classics? Is there a specific track that reminds you of your first date or an artist whose music feels like the soundtrack to your relationship?
During our pre-wedding consultation, I’ll ask questions designed to uncover these details. It’s not just about building a playlist; it’s about creating a musical narrative that mirrors your journey together. Some couples come to me with fully formed ideas, while others need guidance—and that’s where the fun begins.
A Shared Process
Curating your wedding playlist isn’t something I do alone; it’s something we do together. Using my interactive tools, including an online portal where you can upload song requests and playlists, we’ll collaborate on every aspect of your wedding music.
Here’s how it works:
- Requests: You’ll share your must-play songs, as well as any tracks you’d prefer to avoid (because let’s face it—every couple has one or two “do not play” songs).
- Suggestions: Based on your preferences, I’ll recommend additional tracks that fit the mood and flow of your event. Whether it’s finding the perfect recessional song or suggesting an upbeat track for your grand entrance, my goal is to enhance your vision with expert insights.
- Surprises: If you’re open to surprises, I might suggest adding a few unexpected gems—songs that will delight your guests and create unforgettable moments on the dance floor.
This collaborative process ensures that every song feels intentional and meaningful, while also leaving room for spontaneity and excitement.
From Ceremony to Reception
One of the most exciting aspects of curating wedding music is tailoring it to fit different parts of the day. Your ceremony music will likely feel intimate and emotional, while your reception playlist should build energy and keep guests engaged. Together, we’ll design a soundtrack that transitions seamlessly from one moment to the next:
- Ceremony: Whether you want traditional classical pieces or modern acoustic covers, we’ll select songs that set the tone for your vows.
- Cocktail Hour: This is where we can get creative—think chill vibes with jazz standards or indie folk tracks that keep guests mingling happily.
- Reception: From your first dance to the final song of the night, we’ll focus on creating high-energy moments that keep everyone on their feet.
Throughout this process, I’ll use my expertise in timing and transitions to ensure every song flows naturally into the next—keeping the atmosphere vibrant and cohesive all day long.
Taking Requests Without Missing a Beat
Weddings are dynamic events filled with surprises—and sometimes those surprises come in the form of last-minute song requests from guests or family members. At Vinylly Wed, I embrace these moments as opportunities to make your celebration even more special. Using control vinyl (a modern tool that lets me manipulate digital tracks with precision), I can incorporate requests seamlessly without disrupting the flow of music.
For example: if Aunt Linda wants to hear her favorite disco anthem during dinner service or if one of your friends asks for a nostalgic throwback during dancing, I’ve got it covered. Being flexible and responsive is part of what makes working with a professional DJ so valuable—you never have to worry about awkward pauses or missed cues!
Why Collaboration Matters
Music isn’t just background noise; it’s an emotional thread that ties together every part of your wedding day. By collaborating closely on your playlist, we can ensure that every note resonates with meaning—whether it’s bringing tears during your first dance or sparking laughter during an impromptu group singalong.
This shared process also takes some of the pressure off you as a couple. Instead of feeling overwhelmed by choices, you can lean on my expertise while still having full control over what gets played at your event. It’s teamwork at its best—and it makes planning music one of the most enjoyable parts of wedding prep!
Why Vinylly Wed Is Your Perfect Partner
At Vinylly Wed, personalization isn’t just an option—it’s my specialty. As someone who exclusively spins vinyl records (including control vinyl for added flexibility), I bring both artistry and precision to every event I DJ across North Carolina—from Charlotte to Raleigh and Greensboro. My goal is simple: to create a soundtrack that reflects who you are while keeping guests engaged from start to finish.
Whether you’re hosting an intimate micro-wedding or throwing a large-scale celebration, I’ll work tirelessly to craft playlists tailored specifically for you—ensuring every moment feels authentic and unforgettable.
Let’s Build Your Playlist Together
If you’re ready to turn wedding music into a shared adventure filled with creativity and collaboration, let’s connect! Reach out today so we can start designing your perfect playlist—and make sure every beat tells part of your love story. Because at Vinylly Wed, crafting unforgettable soundtracks isn’t just my job; it’s my passion!
Much Love,
Derrin at Vinylly Wed