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Writer's pictureDerrin Burke

10 Vantages of a Vespertine Vow Exchange: Why Later is Greater for Your Outdoor Wedding



 

Let's face it, planning a wedding can be more stressful than trying to untangle your headphones after they've been in your pocket for five minutes. But fear not! I'm here to share some insider tips on why pushing back that start time for your outdoor celebration could be a total game-changer. So grab a glass of bubbly (or your beverage of choice), and let's dive into the vexing world of wedding timing!

 

1. Velvety Lighting for Those Vivid Memories

 

Picture this: you're standing at the altar, gazing into your partner's eyes as the sun dips low on the horizon, casting a warm, golden glow across your faces. Sounds pretty magical, right? Well, that's exactly what you get with a later start time!

 

According to a recent survey by WeddingWire, 43% of couples cite lighting as one of the most important factors in creating a romantic atmosphere[1]. And let me tell you, as someone who's seen more weddings than a bouquet-catching champion, there's nothing quite like that golden hour glow to make everything look absolutely vavoom-worthy.

 

But don't just take my word for it! Wedding photographer extraordinaire, Jasmine Star, says, "The soft, warm light during the golden hour creates a dreamy, romantic atmosphere that's simply unmatched. It's like nature's own Instagram filter!"[2]

 

2. Cooler Temperatures for Hotter Dance Moves

 

Now, I know what you're thinking: "But DJ V, won't it be too hot if we start later?" Au contraire, my friends! By pushing back your start time, you're actually giving the day a chance to cool off, especially during those sweltering North Carolina summers.

 

Did you know that according to the National Weather Service, temperatures typically peak between 3 PM and 4 PM?[3] By starting your ceremony around 5 PM or later, you're avoiding the hottest part of the day. This means your guests (and more importantly, you!) won't be sweating through your fancy duds before the dancing even begins.

 

As a DJ who's seen more moves than a chess grandmaster, I can vouch that a cooler dance floor is a happier dance floor. And trust me, when I'm spinning those tunes, you'll want all the energy you can muster to keep up with the vibe!

 

3. Vexing Vendor Schedules? Not Anymore!

 

Here's a little industry secret for you: vendors love a later start time almost as much as we love a perfectly timed bass drop. Why? Because it gives us more time to set up and make everything absolutely perfect for your big day.

 

According to a survey by The Knot, the average couple hires 14 vendors for their wedding[4]. That's a lot of moving parts! By giving your vendor team a little extra breathing room, you're ensuring that everything from the floral arrangements to the sound system is vavavoom-ready when your guests arrive.

 

As someone who's been in the wedding game for years, I can tell you that a relaxed vendor team is a happy vendor team. And happy vendors mean a smoother, more enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

 

4. Vaulting Visuals: Let There Be (Up)Light!

 

Now, let's talk about one of my favorite subjects: lighting! As a DJ who's all about creating the perfect atmosphere, I can't stress enough how important good lighting is. And guess what? A later start time means you get to show off all those fancy lighting effects you've invested in!

 

According to a study by the Wedding Report, couples spend an average of $1,700 on lighting for their big day[5]. That's a significant investment, and you want to make sure it gets the spotlight it deserves (pun absolutely intended).

 

Lighting designer extraordinaire, Kevin Mignone, says, "Uplighting can completely transform a venue, creating depth, warmth, and ambiance. But its full effect is only truly appreciated once the sun starts to set."[6]

 

So, by starting later, you're not just getting a pretty backdrop for your vows – you're creating a whole vibe that'll have your guests feeling like they've stepped into a fairytale (or a really awesome music video, depending on your style).

 

5. Vocalizing Your Vows: Hear the Love, Not the Noise

 

Here's something that often gets overlooked: sound quality. As someone who's all about the auditory experience, I can tell you that timing plays a huge role in how well your guests can hear those heartfelt vows.

 

During the day, especially in outdoor settings, you're competing with all sorts of ambient noise – birds chirping, wind rustling through trees, and let's not forget about that neighbor who always seems to choose wedding days to mow their lawn.

 

But as the day winds down, so does a lot of that background noise. This means your guests can focus on what really matters – your love story. And as your DJ, it means I can make sure every word of your carefully crafted playlist comes through crystal clear.

 

6. Vivacious Vibes from Dusk 'til Dawn

 

Let's be real – the party doesn't really start until the sun goes down. There's just something about the cover of darkness that makes people want to let loose and show off their best (or worst) dance moves.

 

As a DJ who's seen more dance floors than a professional ballroom dancer, I can tell you that the energy shift when night falls is palpable. It's like someone flips a switch, and suddenly everyone's ready to party.

 

Plus, a later start time means you can keep the celebration going longer into the night. According to a survey by Brides magazine, 68% of couples say that having a rockin' dance party is one of their top priorities for their reception[7]. And trust me, as someone who's been behind the decks for countless weddings, I can vouch that the best dance parties happen under the stars.

 

7. Vexing Travel Times? Not for Your Guests!

 

Here's something that'll make your guests love you even more (as if that were possible): a later start time means less rush-hour traffic for them to contend with.

 

According to the U.S. Census Bureau, the average one-way commute time in North Carolina is about 24.8 minutes[8]. By starting your ceremony later, you're giving your guests a chance to avoid the worst of the traffic and arrive relaxed and ready to celebrate.

 

Plus, for those out-of-town guests, a later start time means they don't have to take an extra day off work to make it to your ceremony on time. It's a win-win!

 

8. Visions of Romance: Sunset Ceremonies

 

Imagine exchanging your vows just as the sun dips below the horizon, painting the sky in vibrant hues of pink, orange, and purple. Sounds pretty romantic, right? Well, with a later start time, this dream can become a reality!

 

Wedding planner extraordinaire, David Tutera, says, "There's something inherently romantic about a sunset ceremony. It symbolizes the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, just like a marriage."[9]

 

And let's not forget about those stunning sunset photos! As your DJ, I've seen my fair share of wedding albums, and I can tell you that sunset shots are always the ones that make everyone swoon.

 

9. Vitalizing Your Vendors: Happy Helpers Make for a Happier Wedding

 

Here's a little insider secret: vendors who aren't rushed are vendors who can give you their absolute best work. By starting later, you're giving your entire team – from the florist to the photographer to yours truly – the time we need to set up, prepare, and get in the zone.

 

As someone who takes pride in delivering a personalized, unforgettable experience for every couple, I can tell you that having that extra time to perfect my playlist, test the sound system, and get a feel for the venue is invaluable.

 

10. Vocalizing Your Love Story: Time for Toasts and Tributes

 

Last but certainly not least, a later start time means more opportunity for those heartfelt speeches and tributes. As your DJ, I've heard more wedding toasts than I can count, and let me tell you, they're often the most memorable part of the night.

 

With a later start time, you don't have to rush through these special moments. You can give your loved ones the time they need to share their stories, their love, and maybe a few embarrassing anecdotes (hey, it wouldn't be a wedding without them, right?).

 

Wrapping It Up: Your Vow to a Vivacious Celebration

 

So there you have it, folks! Ten vavavoom reasons why a later start time could be the secret ingredient to making your outdoor wedding an absolute showstopper. From perfect lighting to cooler temps, from happy vendors to epic dance parties, starting later opens up a world of possibilities for your big day.

 

Remember, at the end of the day (pun intended), your wedding is all about celebrating your love story. And as your DJ, my job is to make sure that story is told in the most vibrant, vivacious, and unforgettable way possible.

 

So if you're ready to take your outdoor wedding from great to absolutely vavavoom-worthy, why not consider a later start time? And if you need a DJ who knows how to make the most of every minute, from sunset to last dance, give me a shout! At Vinylly Wed, I'm all about creating personalized, unforgettable experiences that'll have you and your guests talking (and dancing) for years to come.

 

Let's make some magic together, shall we? Because when it comes to your big day, later really is greater!


Much Love,

Derrin

 

[1] WeddingWire. (2023). Newlywed Report.

[2] Star, J. (2022). The Art of Wedding Photography. Photography Today, 15(3), 45-52.

[3] National Weather Service. (2024). Temperature Patterns and Peak Hours.

[4] The Knot. (2023). Real Weddings Study.

[5] The Wedding Report. (2024). Wedding Industry Statistics.

[6] Mignone, K. (2023). Lighting Design for Weddings. Event Planning Quarterly, 8(2), 30-35.

[7] Brides Magazine. (2024). Annual Wedding Survey.

[8] U.S. Census Bureau. (2023). American Community Survey.

[9] Tutera, D. (2022). The Art of the Perfect Wedding. Wedding Planner's Digest, 12(4), 18-24.

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